Last night I had sex with Russell Brand. Yup, that’s right. This guy.
It was the hottest sex I’ve had in quite a while—and I went into a full-body, incredibly blissful, super intense orgasm. It was the most powerful orgasm I have ever experienced.
And it all happened while soundly asleep, dreaming. Yes, as you may have guessed already, my Russell Brand tryst happened in a dream.
I’m a big fan of dreams, and I spent almost three years working with a teacher who uses dream-work as a gateway into both exploring the inner workings of our psyche, and tapping into our full potential.
I’ve learned that dream characters often show up in our dreams to help us viscerally experience our full potential—a potential that is dying to be realized and expressed on the human plane.
So, in this dream, Russell was there to help me tap into my next level of orgasmic potential. If I can experience that level of mind-blowing, blissful orgasm in my dream, I can experience it in my waking life too. The potential has just been asleep inside me, and the dream initiated it’s waking up.
Most of my clients who work with me privately in my sex and relationship coaching practice, work with me me because they are cut off from their sexual energy, and are experiencing low-libido, pelvic-pain, or just want a more in depth connection with their sexual potential. Read about my own journey with pelvic-pain and low-libido here.
Often, when they work with me, they spontaneously start having orgasmic dreams. These dreams are there to show them what is possible and to wake up the orgasmic energy that already lives inside them—they have just cut themselves off from it for various reasons.
In fact, last week, I taught a free tele-class for women on the topic of waking up your libido, and this is what someone wrote me the next day:
I heard Sarah’s talk 7 months after having a total hysterectomy, which forced me into menopause, and I had given up all hope of ever experiencing sexual pleasure again, much less of ever having another orgasm. The night after I heard Sarah talk, I had a dream that was sexually arousing, and when I woke up I had a FULL BODY ORGASM!!! I was astonished, and cried tears of gratitude at this reawakening of my body. After experiencing 2 more orgasms within the next 4 hours, I decided it would be a good idea to talk to Sarah about some coaching. -PK, Chicago, Il.
I should warn you that it's possible that after reading this blog post, you will experience an orgasmic dream yourself. If it doesn’t happen spontaneously, and you are interested in knowing your orgasmic potential, there is a process I learned from my teacher that can help you tap into the dream world. I teach this process to all my private clients, but I want to share it here with everyone because I want everyone to know their orgasmic potential!
So, here you go!
Right before falling asleep:
- On a piece of paper write something like this:
Dear Dream World (or subconscious, or higher power, or whatever works for you),
Please give me a dream that will show me my full orgasmic potential. (You can also ask to be shown what is blocking you from this potential in your waking life, but that can be difficult to interpret on your own.)
- Put the piece of paper under your pillow.
- Set the intention to remember your dreams. If you don’t normally remember your dreams, it’s ok. If you put intention towards remembering them, you will begin to remember.
- When you have a dream and as soon as you wake up, write down anything you remember, don’t wait! If you don’t have a dream that night, don’t fret, just ask again the next night.
- See what you can interpret out of the details of the dream, and if you experienced orgasmic energy, bask it in! Let it really sink into your system. Think of the dream throughout the day, and see if you can’t reconnect with the orgasmic energy. The more intention you put toward it, the more it will start to wake up inside you.
And, if for some reason, you don’t have an orgasmic dream, don’t worry about it. It doesn’t mean you don’t have orgasmic potential, you might just need other ways besides dreams to get in contact with it.
If you do have an orgasmic dream, and you are comfortable sharing it with me, I’d love to hear from you! Anything you share with me would be strictly confidential, unless you gave me permission to share otherwise.
Here’s to orgasm, and Russell Brand!
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